
Author: Sunshine
I’m an author, techie, and consultant who writes about everything from APIs to transgender issues. Five years ago I was in an accident that turned my life upside down. This blog is my attempt to share my journey, in the hopes it will help others—whether in a similar boat or another boat that’s adrift for other reasons. Our shared humanity and the struggles we must manage bind us together.


Get a stomach ache when taking chances? Feel like you’ll never be worthy of love or success? Five ways to banish self doubt for once and for all

The surprising science of loss, and what it teaches us about handling the toughest situations life hands us

Feeling down? Stressed? Unable to handle the pandemic for one more minute? How a surprising, decades old study can help you find happiness again

How Netflix busted stereotypes about women and chronic illness in “The Queen’s Gambit,” tackling it in a way that broke with Hollywood tradition

They were the Jay-Z and Beyoncé of their time, but chronic pain tore them apart. What we can learn from the story of Miles Davis

I’m in agony. How can I even think about success? 7 ways to tap into the power of the universe when you’re coping with chronic pain

Bisexuality, PVC, sex toys, modern love…10 reasons to binge watch “Lucifer.” You’re forgiven if you’re sad it’s ending

Does Stephen Hawking Make You Feel Inadequate? You’re not Alone, and the Reality is More Interesting than the Myth
