
Author: Sunshine
I’m an author, techie, and consultant who writes about everything from APIs to transgender issues. Five years ago I was in an accident that turned my life upside down. This blog is my attempt to share my journey, in the hopes it will help others—whether in a similar boat or another boat that’s adrift for other reasons. Our shared humanity and the struggles we must manage bind us together.


Bisexuality, PVC, sex toys, modern love…10 reasons to binge watch “Lucifer.” You’re forgiven if you’re sad it’s ending

Does Stephen Hawking Make You Feel Inadequate? You’re not Alone, and the Reality is More Interesting than the Myth

Jumping at loud noises? Seeing red? Here are 5 signs you could have PTSD…and what to do about it if you do

Is it okay to be happy right now? What it means if you’re finding joy in the midst of suffering and uncertainty

It’s normal to be anxious and worried right now. Here’s how to cope. A Q&A with Janet Fouts, mindfulness coach

How to break free of fearful thinking. The 16 best YouTube videos to lift you up and reset your mind during these difficult times

5 ways to stay calm in troubled times. Take these steps to keep yourself sane while the world is scary

You’re not alone, and you’re so much more than you think. What we can learn from the Buddha, Jesus, and their two parables of the mustard seed
